Tuesday, November 10, 2009

"love and marriage

go together like horse and carriage"

only in a song.

through this i have lost some faith in marriage, in staying together "till death due us part" i don't mean to say it can't happen but I have kinda lost some faith in it.

does true love really exist or is it just in fairy tales?

some things I do know are:
from the moment you say "i do" to your last breath you are meant to stay with one person. you aren't meant to "go searching for love in all the wrong places" you are supposed to work through things, it is never love at first sight. you fall in love over time with a person. you can't ever truly love a person until you have seen them at every angle, in their bad, in their good, in their happy, in their sad.
you can't just give up when things get tough between you two. you work through them and refine the precious relationship you have like a someone refining gold. you press forward always wanting something better never settling for the mediocre with the relationship. you should continue to want to learn more about each other, and fall more and more in love with the person as you get to know them.
and that is just before marriage.
you should never fully commit your life to another unless you are absolutely positively sure that you don't want any other human on the planet.

but how do we know true love really exists?



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